The Full Funeral Rite is always recommended in the Catholic faith but we realize that each family has different desires for their loved one. Please fill out the form that most applies to your Funeral Request.
THE FULL CATHOLIC FUNERAL RITE
THE VIGIL ONLY
VIGIL & LITURGY
LITURGY ONLY
VIGIL & COMMITTAL
COMMITTAL ONLY
LITURGY & COMMITTAL
“At the vigil, the Christian community keeps watch with the family in prayer to the God of mercy and finds strength in Christ’s presence” (Order of Christian Funerals, no. 56). The Vigil Service usually takes place during the period of visitation and viewing at the funeral home a day before the Funeral Mass. It is a time to remember the life of the deceased and to commend him/her to God. In prayer we ask God to console us in our grief and give us strength to support one another.
The funeral liturgy is the central liturgical celebration of the Christian community for the deceased. When one of its members dies, the Church encourages the celebration of the funeral liturgy at a Mass.
At the funeral liturgy, the Church gathers with the family and friends of the deceased to give praise and thanks to God for Christ’s victory over sin and death, to commend the deceased to God’s tender mercy and compassion, and to seek strength in the proclamation of the Paschal Mystery. The funeral liturgy, therefore, is an act of worship, and not merely an expression of grief.
Funeral Masses are celebrated in the Church celebrated by a priest and assisted by a deacon if needed.
Options:
The family also has the option to select the readings, psalms, and gospel for the liturgy. Funeral Masses that take place during the Easter Season have different liturgy to chose from.
The Rite of Committal, the conclusion of the funeral rite, is the final act of the community of faith in caring for the body of its deceased member. It should normally be celebrated at the place of committal, that is, beside the open grave or place of inurnment. n committing the body to its resting place, the community expresses the hope that, with all those who have gone before us marked with the sign of faith, the deceased awaits the glory of the resurrection. The Rite of Committal is an expression of the communion that exists between the Church on earth and the Church in heaven: the deceased passes with the farewell prayers of the community of believers into the welcoming company of those who need faith no longer, but see God face-to-face.
Options
These final rites, administered by a deacon, follow immediately after the Mass, if Mass is being celebrated.
Funeral Receptions
We may be able to provide a room for funeral receptions for family and friends to gather following the funeral, burial, or inurnment, depending on room availability. The options are McGivney Hall , which can accommodate up to 100, and the Great Room, which can accommodate up to 300 with chairs and tables. We have a Compassion Ministry team that is available for morning or early afternoon receptions to assist with set-up, clean-up, and serving; they can also provide side dishes, desserts, and beverages to go with sandwiches or whatever type of meat the family might want to provide.
Please let us know if you’re interested in having a funeral reception at the parish and we will take care of contacting our Compassion Ministry lead, Annette Schmidt.
We know this can be a bit overwhelming, especially during a period of grief.
If you have any questions about what we offer here at St. Mark or if you’d just like to talk to us, fill out the following contact form and we will get back to you shortly to help facilitate the process.